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M - MoveN - NoO - OpenP - Problem SolvingQ - QuestionR - Remember

M is for Move

Embracing the Power of Movement for Resilience


Movement is a cornerstone of personal resilience. It's simple to incorporate into our daily lives, even when our movements are restricted. Movement can provide time and space to clear your head and find focus amidst life's challenges. Each movement whether that be a step, run or dance can help with processing thoughts, gaining clarity, and cultivating a stronger mindset. Movement is more than just a physical activity; it's a powerful tool for mental and emotional resilience. 


Practise these steps:

  • Create a standing desk to encourage you to stand and move while working.
  • Set a timer for every 45 minutes to remind you to move.
  • Ensure you get out for some form of movement each day.
  • If you can, always climb the stairs instead of taking the lift.


In both our personal and professional lives, resilience is key. 


Reflect:

Take a moment for yourself, breathe deeply, and move with intention.

"I am made for moving and am choosing to move with intention every day."

#ResilienceAlphabet #Move #PhysicalWellbeing

N is for No

 The Power of Setting Boundaries


Sometimes, the hardest thing and the right thing are the same. One of the keys to personal resilience is knowing when to say "No”. 


What is your “Yes” worth if you never say “No”? It is, and always has been, essential to say "No" to certain things in order to say "Yes" to what truly matters. Failing to make this distinction can lead to overload, especially during times of high stress.


Practise these steps:

  • Protect your priorities - including your wellbeing - being intentional about where you invest your time and energy. 
  • Set boundaries so that you can focus on the things that truly matter: your goals, relationships, and self-care.
  • Empower yourself by saying No so that you can prioritise what truly counts and say Yes to what matters.


Re-evaluate your priorities and understand that every "No" is in service of a more impactful "Yes." 


Reflect :

Think about your current priorities and what you need to say "No" to today, ensuring you have the time and energy for the "Yes" that only you can provide. 

“I am saying No to some things in order to say Yes to my real priorities.”

#ResilienceAlphabet #SayingNo #SettingBoundaries

O is for Open

Embracing Openness for Personal Resilience and Growth


Openness is a vital component of personal resilience. One of the best things we can do for our wellbeing is to be open about:

1. How we are feeling today.

2. What emotions we are experiencing.

3. Our hopes for the future.


This degree of openness comes more naturally to some than others. Some people may immediately delve into their thoughts when asked about their feelings, but it's often beneficial to express these feelings in one word.


Releasing difficult thoughts and feelings—whether through talking, writing, or exercising—is more helpful than holding them in until they explode. Letting the steam out a little at a time is far more constructive for maintaining balance and resilience.


Being open to new ideas, feedback, and experiences is part of learning and growth. Openness fosters collaboration and builds resilience. When we welcome diverse perspectives, we cultivate a mindset that thrives on adaptability. Challenges become opportunities for growth, and setbacks transform into stepping stones.


Practice these steps:

  • Take time each day to consider how you are feeling and share these thoughts, communicating honestly and openly
  • Listen actively by engaging with others' perspectives.
  • Learn from experiences by using feedback for personal and professional growth.


By being open, we can navigate uncertainties and emerge stronger than before. Openness is not just about sharing; it’s about listening, learning, and growing together. Embrace openness to build a more resilient, adaptable, and collaborative life.


Reflect:

How you are feeling today and what has influenced this? Consider how you can express this and who you might share it with.

“I am choosing to be open with those I know will help me reflect without judgement.”

#ResilienceAlphabet #Openness #NoJudgement

P is for Problem Solving

An Opportunity for Creativity


We face many challenges that can test the very fabric of our being. One of the most essential skills in navigating this is effective problem solving. Our ability to approach problems with a positive mindset and innovation fosters resilience.


Practise these steps:

  • View each challenge as an opportunity for growth and learning. This shifts the focus from fear of failure to a willingness to experiment and innovate.
  • Create space where you can feel safe to share ideas and thoughts with others. Diverse perspectives can lead to more creative solutions.
  • Collaborative problem solving leads to better outcomes and strengthens relationships.


Reflect:

Think about a problem you are facing at work or at home. Who might be able to help you work through this, and how might you create the space to explore the problem and find a solution together?

“Every problem has a solution, you just have to be creative enough to find it.”

#ResilienceAlphabet #ProblemSolving #GrowthMindset

Q is for Question

Embracing Question for Personal Growth and Resilience


In the journey of building resilience, one of the most powerful tools at our disposal is the art of asking questions. Questions often disturb our equilibrium, which might be their core purpose. They open doors to new perspectives, foster deeper understanding, and drive meaningful conversations.


As Rainer Maria Rilke wisely advised, "Have patience with everything that remains unsolved in your heart… live in the question." It's essential to embrace your questions and learn to live with them. Whether they pertain to faith, meaning, or the future, these questions can shape your journey towards personal resilience. 


Practise these steps:

  • Embrace questions as opportunities for growth and reflection.
  • Ask, what can I learn from my experiences?
  • Ask, who can I reach out to for support or guidance?


By embracing curiosity and inquiry, we empower ourselves and create a culture where learning and growth thrive.


Reflect:

Focusing on self-reflection, consider the following: What strengths do you have and what one thing would you like to improve? What steps do you need to take to move this forward? When will you take the first step?


“I am learning to have patience and to be at peace with some of the questions in my life.”

#ResilienceAlphabet #QuestionsMatter #Curiosity

R is for Remember

Harnessing Memories for Resilience and Wellbeing


Remembering is a powerful tool for building resilience by fostering emotional growth, connecting with others, and maintaining a positive outlook on life. Reflecting on past experiences, whether joyful or challenging, can help us reframe our struggles, revisit what we learned and inspire us to overcome current obstacles.


To build your personal resilience, I encourage you to look at some photos from the past, revisit those significant memories. Remembering serves as a catalyst for resilience, helping individuals not only survive difficult times but also thrive despite them.


Sharing memories strengthens our bonds and provides support.


Practise these steps:

  • Laugh at fun moments from the past and enjoy the humour and joy captured in your memories or photos.
  • Reflect on significant events and the people who shared them with you.
  • Revisit happy times and use these memories to boost your resilience and emotional wellbeing.
  • Use past adversities to find purpose and motivate yourself to overcome current challenges.


Remembering is not just about looking back; it's about using our memories to build a resilient and optimistic future.


Reflect:

Write a list of ten people you have photos of and make contact with them. You have a vast store of happy memories—what a valuable resource to revisit!

“I am accessing my memory to build resilience by remembering happy times!”

#ResilienceAlphabet #RememberThePast #HarnessingMemories

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